Rude and aggressive finds few worthwhile friends...
I suggest sharing a tasty and nutritious meal with family and/or friends, while discussing the joys of friendship, helpfulnes, courtesy, understanding what you read, and possibly even how friendly and respectful people are to those who are themselves friendly and respectful.
After meditating on this for a while (maybe over a tasty and nutritious meal), you might consider posting again...
We'd quite likely love and enjoy the real you, the image you're currently projecting, we usually shit-can quite smartly.

.:Note - this comment referred to an earlier version of the above post, before he edited it to its current state.:.